My name is Fiona, and I’m writing to you as a close friend of Fran – someone who brought so much joy, laughter and love to everyone who knew her.
In 2018, Fran was unexpectedly diagnosed with breast cancer after finding what she and her husband Laurence initially thought was a jellyfish sting. The cancer became secondary, and their world changed in an instant.
Thanks to the compassionate care of Birmingham Hospice, Fran was supported both at home and in the hospice’s Inpatient Unit to help manage her pain and symptoms. Their team ensured Fran could be comfortable, laugh with her nurses, and be herself – always with her wonderful sense of humour shining through.
Fran’s nurses, Elizabeth and Karen, weren’t just nursing professionals, they became part of her world. Fran would tell us how much she laughed with them, and that was so important to her. One nurse even came to the house on the day of Fran’s funeral – a small but unforgettable act of kindness that meant everything to us.
When Fran’s health declined rapidly, her wish was to return home and thanks to the hospice, that wish came true. The final five days she spent at home with Laurence and their beloved cat Dottie were filled with precious memories.
Fran died peacefully at home in October 2022 at just 53 years-old, surrounded by love.
That’s why we started our annual fundraiser, The Bra-B-Q, in Fran’s memory and as a way to support Birmingham Hospice. However, it isn’t just a fundraiser – it’s a celebration of Fran’s spirit: fun, laughter, friends, and making the most of every moment. Fran wouldn’t have wanted sadness to define her memory and we are determined to honour that.
Th hospice was able to help my friends Fran and Laurence live well, even when facing life’s hardest moments. We now hope the Bra-B-Q and our fundraising efforts help other families’ wishes come true and give peace, dignity and comfort when it matters most.
